All it takes is a wobble
of ankle or attention—
the other racers fly ahead
and I’ll never catch up.
This is a stupid way
to approach a cherry
blossom. With fear,
I mean. What if,
I ask my spouse, I waste
this gift of two weeks?
I will have betrayed
my family. Counting
games and recitals
at which I will not
cheer, mushrooms
I will not fry. This
week I helped my son
imagine how to draw rain.
I mailed my daughter’s
lopped ponytail to a cancer
charity. All that honey.
Now she runs light.
And I pack the car
with tea bags, soft clothes,
books about other books
because who knows what
a mother of teenagers
will do with solitude?
My spouse laughs.
His first gift to me,
a quarter century ago,
was news that my terror
is funny. We keep walking
past a drowned young
green snake, curled
in a spiral, along the brown
creek, all roiled up
by last night’s rackety
storms. Surprised, he admits,
I slept through the thunder.
My NaPoWriMo poem drafting frenzy continues. One of the most fun projects I’ve started is a collaboration with visual artist Carolyn Capps–she sent me an image, I wrote a poem by way of reply, she’s going to create another image and send it to me, and we’ll see where it goes from there. More on that later, I hope.
This morning’s poem, posted above, had several triggers. My daughter is now on the track team. I read an ominously beautiful poem by Jack Ridl in the new Poet Lore called “Within the Moment of Indefinite Suffering” that begins, “All it takes is a tick.” And, obviously, I took a walk with Chris. He’s just back from Pittsburgh, where he’s settling his mother into assisted living. I’m off tomorrow to the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, where I’ll have a studio, three effortless meals a day, and woods to walk in while I think poetic thoughts. I’m obviously feeling guilty and panicked. I’m wondering if I’m the only person who’s dumb enough to approach the amazing privilege of a 2 week fellowship, no strings attached, with this level of fear, or whether this is a totally normal angsty writer way to siphon off the joy from an amazing spring adventure.
2 responses to “I’m sorry I’m abandoning you all”
Nope, you are not alone. Fear paralyzes me when confronted with a blank calendar. Two weeks is a wonderful gift, and will not be wasted even if all you do is sleep, eat and read. It’s all fodder for the creative juices, in the end. HAVE A WONDERFUL TIME!!!!!!
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Thanks, Deborah! I feel better already.
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